Wednesday 9 April 2014

Journey from being Decent to Indecent



A girl, brought up with lots of love, who was blessed and pampered from both parents. Father's brave girls and Mumma's naughty girl. Whenever her dad's said that she is brave enough to do any work, she tried her best to do and completed that, even if she had being shivering from fear. And her mom was afraid of  that she could say anything in front of  any one. As she does in front of many relative once. She appreciated her mom's beauty in a wedding by saying "Mom you are looking patakha(Bombshell)". ;-)

One day Papa’s girl denied to go to her aunt’s home in neighbourhood to ask for ice in summers. She innocently asked to her mother:”Mumma don’t my papa earn. Then why we don’t have refrigerator in our home?”. Father replied :”Yes darling I do, Now tell me what should be the color of our new refrigerator”. And on the very next day she got a refrigerator in her home. She grew up. Not very good in studies but more than average students.

Times keeps on passing. She goes from school to college, college to job. She made her parents proud in most of the fields without being praised by them. But she always knew this and was delighted to be so. As she knew this, they just don't praise her in front of her but wouldn't leave a single chance to show her daughter's achievement's to others. Indian parents are like this only and it is being carried out since very early generation. As she never saw her grand-parents doing so either.

Days were going well with her job. She switched to other company. And from this point her life changed. She met a decent guy there, who was not just helpful in official work, but was always ready to help for everyone. From humans to animals, he was humble with  everyone. She liked him as person. And as per the god's plan, he liked her too. Both fell in love. She was on the cloud nine to be with him. She wanted to maintain the same through out her life.

Time comes to tell her parents about the guys she loved. As she expected, her parents reacted and opposed the fact of love marriage. Since ages everyone in her family got married with the choice of their parents  which is known as arrange marriage. Every single word which defines her in her parents view took a 180 turn . From being intelligent she became dump, from being decent to indecent. Every achievement of her got vanished in front of this biggest mistake. How could she choose a life partner for her. She has right to choose  what to study for her career path, she can choose from job options, she can opt her friends. But how she can forget this, she is an Indian girl. She don't have right to love someone from core of her heart. Its not her parents behaving so, this is the society which certified a girl or guy being sincere and obedient child, if he/she got married to their parents choice after having N number of affairs.


To be Continued...

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